I have read the books below and have found them helpful. I often recommend them to my patients.
Idols of the Heart by Elyse Fitzpatrick
How People Change by Timothy S. Lane
The Biblical View of Self-Esteem, Self-Love and Self-Image by Jay E. Adams
When People are Big and God is Small by Edward T. Welch
Running Scared: Fear, Worry and the God of Rest by Edward T. Welch
I t's Not About Me: Rescue From the Life We Thought Would Make Us Happy by Max Lucado
Stealing From God: Why Atheists Need God to Make Their Case by Frank Turek
The Hiding Place by Corrie Ten Boom